"The secret of success is learning how to use pain and
pleasure instead of having pain and pleasure use you. If you do that, you're in control of your life. If you don't,
life controls you." - Tony Robbins
Welcome to the learning curve to personal development improving self
confidence, success and wealth
Films and how it can have a positive effect
on your life
Have you ever felt energised after
watching a film? Suddenly whatever that is troubling you, doesn't seem difficult anymore. This is one of the positive effect
of films.
In the film
Groundhog Day , a weatherman discover that he have to go through the same day over and over again. It was not
until he accepted his situation and start to make positive changes, he could finally move on to a brand new
day.
Films and movies can have positive effect on us;
the viewers and there are several aspects of its influence. They are:
1. Films like books expand our views about the world.
We visit places on screen, discover cultural differences and practices. Sometimes they help shed our
prejudices and improve our understanding about a country or a race. I was enthralled by the wild
safari in
Out of Africa , the scenic route of Europe in
The Italian Job and the magnificent landscape in
Seven Years in Tibet .
2. A film about human triumphant in spite of
adversities gives us hope. We recognised the emotional trauma experienced by Christy Brown in the film,
My Left Foot and at the same time we felt uplifted by his achievements as a successful writer. We can also
relate the challenges of family life in
The Other Sister ; it makes us ponder about our attitudes towards certain situation and person.
3.
Forrest Gump was a simple man. He didn’t become a successful business person due to his intelligence but it was
his perseverance and good intentions that paved way to his success. Films like this tell us that we do not
have to possess high IQ or be scheming to become successful. In fact, it reminds us on the importance of
having good integrity and good intention.
4. Sometimes, highly intelligent men need help too. In
the film,
Good Will Hunting , the main character has a gift for mathematics but didn’t know he needs guidance to manifest
this gift and find direction in his life. This aspect of the film address
the fact that irrespective of our level of intelligence, we all need some help at some point of our
life.
5. Through the years, films have brought to light
hidden issues such as sexual harassment, homosexuality and HIV. The film
Disclosure has opened up cases of real life sexual harassment charges. We now have a better understanding
about HIV through the film,
Philadelphia and the plight of gay couples in
Prayers for Bobby .
I have watched
Groundhog Day many times. My initially reaction to this film was the irritation of its repeated screening on TV.
However, as I set aside my annoyance and open my mind to this film, I began to see the positive effect and it
was different every time. The film had taught me about having good intention in whatever I do and the courage
to change my attitude and values for the better.
The type of positive effect a film has on you
could be different from mine.You could feel enlightened, assured and confident or you could have
clarity in thoughts. It is dependant on our state of mind at that moment and our perception of
certain life issues. Whatever it is, you will know it when it happens.
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